Second Chances

[chevelle]

I post this not out of personal experience, but because of a movie I recently saw.

If you were married and had a child with your spouse, would you stay with them if they cheated on you? What if they told you that it only happened once and swore that it'd never happen again? If you did decide to work things out, would you ever be able to truly get past the fact that they slept with someone else?

[sweethert68]

It is so crazy that you bring this up... when I had to counsel a freind for over an hour about this very issue...

First of all... NO... I think that if someone cheated on me I would never forget or forgive... In the back of my mind I would always remember... So I would leave and never look back... it would be over...

But my friend in this same position... with everyone trying to talk her out of it decided to move with him...

She said every time she looks at him she thinks about it..

[kritn]

I always think once a cheater always a cheater. And it's better to bring up a child in a happy single parent home than a home with both parents where they're constantly screaming at each other or not being able to trust.

[glidefx]

second chances are for quakers...

[baNNed]

Once that happens I think everything doing with trust is lost. I think after awhile you realize that relationship is more important than sex. Don't get me wrong, sex is nice but it only last for a few hours. After that the equipment just gets sore.. for her sake.